How to Choose a Gestational Surrogate
There are many infertility treatment options, such as intrauterine insemination or in vitro fertilization, that increase the likelihood of a pregnancy being brought to term. However, some women are unable to carry a pregnancy for medical or other reasons. Finding a gestational surrogate to carry the pregnancy to term is a good solution to this problem. However, gestational surrogacy does come with some practical and legal difficulties. Learn about how to choose a gestational surrogate and how the professionals at one of the top fertility clinics in Vermont can help.
What Is Gestational Surrogacy?
A gestational surrogate carries a child to term for someone who cannot do so without help. However, the genetic material (sperm and egg) do not come from the surrogate. Rather, the egg and sperm may come from the parents or from a donor. The embryo may be created through conventional in vitro fertilization or natural cycle IVF. Then, the embryo is placed into the surrogate’s uterus where it develops for the duration of the pregnancy.
How to Choose a Gestational Surrogate
There are two general options for choosing a gestational surrogate: ask someone you know, or select a surrogate from an established agency. Although many people are tempted to ask a woman they know and trust to act as a surrogate, this approach can have several drawbacks. Remember that your surrogate must be 100% committed to maintaining her health and the health of your baby during the pregnancy, as well as surrendering the baby to you after birth. This can present psychological, emotional, legal, and relationship challenges if you choose a surrogate you already know.
The other common option is to choose a gestational surrogate from an agency, with the help of your Vermont fertility clinic doctor. These women have chosen to become potential surrogates and have undergone health and psychological screening. For any surrogate, this should include:
- A thorough physical exam to identify potential pregnancy risk factors
- Blood work and infectious disease screening
- Thorough review of prior pregnancy history, including any complications
- Psychological screening
- Strong communication skills
- Commitment to a healthy lifestyle during pregnancy
- Ability to follow the doctor’s recommendations
Keep in mind that gestational surrogacy also involves a legal contract. You and your lawyer should review the terms of this contract to ensure that both the surrogate and intended parents understand their rights and obligations. This should include a discussion of contact during the prenatal process, what will happen during and immediately following birth, terms of payment, and other relevant legal issues.
Choosing the best gestational surrogate can be challenging, but asking lots of questions and relying on the expertise of your fertility doctor will help you make the best decision. Contact our Vermont fertility clinic to learn more about your fertility treatment options.
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